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Liz Evans's avatar

Loved watching this conversation between two of my favourites, over breakfast! So much to consider… I’m brimming with responses. Please do another! Xx

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juliet nicolson's avatar

Amazing conversation packed with insight and practicality and genuine feeling of how valuable it is to share stuff. Wonderful

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FionaMountain's avatar

Thanks so much for this. So glad you shared the conversation. I’m post menopause / empty nester and still feeling mad and sad. Also just been prescribed beta blockers for palpitations which are freaking me out so great to hear it’s so common! X

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Anna Potter's avatar

I'm rebelling here and just wanted to say, have you read "The Anxious Generation" by Jonathan Haidt? It's on kids, smartphone use, and the rise of a risk free childhood. It is absolutely brilliant (I'm reading as I'm being lobbyed for a phone by my 9yr old).

Sorry to hijack this feed, but I can't message you, and I think you might love it. ...anyway, going to read this now!!

Anna x

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Susan littlemissinquisitive's avatar

Fantastic. 🤩 yes yes yes to part 2!

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Susan littlemissinquisitive's avatar

I understand the sadness. I have such overwhelming grief and sadness. As Sam explained so well with rage, it does feel such a big emotion to contain.

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Susan littlemissinquisitive's avatar

Just pausing again at friendships and trying alternative products. Friendships for me have been so important but also a source of sadness. Letting friendships go or change as I’m the same as you both, straight into the reality of life, a lot of people do not want to go there. So much avoidance and doing. Finding like minded friendships is difficult I find. I take venlafaxine and dont suffer hot flushes. I also use Saskias flower essences.

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Susan littlemissinquisitive's avatar

I’ve just paused. I’m loving this conversation so much. Perfect storm! Absolutely. And I wonder that to about breaking down what is perimenopause, what is midlife, what is empty nest etc etc etc. which feels quite impossible.

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Ruthie Jack's avatar

Thanks for this, information is power, but other women sharing their experiences is so so helpful - the high cortisol was my most severe symptom - rest & relaxation is super important in lowering cortisol levels and made a huge difference for me. Interesting to hear the link between undiagnosed PTSD & more tricky perimenopause.

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Bex Fisher's avatar

I got so excited when I saw your faces...knowing that what would follow would be frank and wise and wry. xx

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JennyB's avatar

OMG I have heart palpitations it’s driving me crazy - doctor said I really evidence that it’s menopause related 😩 Started HRT 2 months ago but it’s not changed anything yet. So useful to hear about - thank you both so much!

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Emma Roberts's avatar

So great!

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Kate scott's avatar

So so helpful and relevent right now - Thankyou both for honesty and wisdom.

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